Solving the gay marriage vote
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mattbellI know a lot of people are upset about the measure that passed in Maine denying gay marriage.
My first reaction is that this will all be moot in a few years because as soon as some old people die and some young people turn 18, gay marriage initiatives will easily pass. I do have some data to support that -- unless people who support gay marriage stop supporting it as they get older (which seems unlikely), we're just a couple of years away from having gay marriage initiatives easily pass in more liberal states.
To me, the anti-gay crowd has already lost the culture war, and it's only a matter of time before they're outnumbered. When I was a child, openly gay characters on TV and in movies were very rare, but now they are very common.
So it seems like the path of least resistance is to just wait a few years.
However, I understand that this issue deeply hurts people now, and that they want to see the change happen faster. This is totally understandable. It seems like the key to making this change happen faster would be to understand what specifically causes people to flip from being anti-gay-marriage to being pro-gay marriage. I'm curious if there's been any systematic large-scale study about what recent converts cite as their reason for converting.
Some ideas of potential reasons:
- Family members or friends who have come out as gay
- Human-interest stories they see on TV or in newspapers about gay people who want to marry but cannot
- Political commercials
- Fictional gay characters in movies/TV/books
If the causes are known, it's easier to come up with a strategy. There are of course issues with the accuracy of self-reporting but surely some data is better than no data.
I do know funding has a big impact, so I'm curious if the various strategies that are used to impact funding are successful. Are there any documented cases of companies stopping their political contributions to antigay measures after boycotts are put in place?
That's me. I like being data-driven and solutions-oriented.
My first reaction is that this will all be moot in a few years because as soon as some old people die and some young people turn 18, gay marriage initiatives will easily pass. I do have some data to support that -- unless people who support gay marriage stop supporting it as they get older (which seems unlikely), we're just a couple of years away from having gay marriage initiatives easily pass in more liberal states.
To me, the anti-gay crowd has already lost the culture war, and it's only a matter of time before they're outnumbered. When I was a child, openly gay characters on TV and in movies were very rare, but now they are very common.
So it seems like the path of least resistance is to just wait a few years.
However, I understand that this issue deeply hurts people now, and that they want to see the change happen faster. This is totally understandable. It seems like the key to making this change happen faster would be to understand what specifically causes people to flip from being anti-gay-marriage to being pro-gay marriage. I'm curious if there's been any systematic large-scale study about what recent converts cite as their reason for converting.
Some ideas of potential reasons:
- Family members or friends who have come out as gay
- Human-interest stories they see on TV or in newspapers about gay people who want to marry but cannot
- Political commercials
- Fictional gay characters in movies/TV/books
If the causes are known, it's easier to come up with a strategy. There are of course issues with the accuracy of self-reporting but surely some data is better than no data.
I do know funding has a big impact, so I'm curious if the various strategies that are used to impact funding are successful. Are there any documented cases of companies stopping their political contributions to antigay measures after boycotts are put in place?
That's me. I like being data-driven and solutions-oriented.
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Date: 2009-11-06 12:54 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2009-11-06 01:18 am (UTC)as i stated below. My sister was rapidly anti-gay in every way growing up. Thought it was a crime against god and every gay person was going to hell. She is otherwise a really sweet and wonderful person.
She was 'forced' to work with a gay coworker who was 'out' a few years ago. In that time, her transformation even letting her children come to events her coworker and his partner were at (something she wouldnt' let them do the first few years but now she does). She voted to support gay marriage in Prop 8 to my surprise. Her coworker has become a friend and she wants him to have a chance for happiness. He is in her terms a good guy who cares about the world.
Being out really makes a difference. Incidentally, same coworker has a current discrimination case out there for being discriminated against in previous employment. He is taking risks each time.. and its rough..but i believe he is fighting the good fight.
Watching my sister transform has been amazing.